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T O P I C R E V I E WpidauaeditedGemini NymphWeeeelllll....LOL. OK, you need to really look at those Saturn aspects girl. I mean, really, really look at them. In all Saturn is aspecting Venus. Both in your synastry and composite. Those are no mere triffles there - those are serious challenges. Saturn like this will probably make both of you want this to be a "grown-up" relationship and be very certain and careful. But at the same time, don't kid yourself. Saturn can make us work very very hard at something, so be sure this is what you want. Otherwise Saturn will be making both of you work very hard for nothing in the end. Even with a Sag moon, he's going to have a more somber personality than you. His moon is conjunct his Neptune, and that creates instablity for the lunar energies. This makes him hypersenstive and emotional unsure, even insecure. His imagination gets the better of him often, so it's not surprising he overreacts to a mere jest. Your moon trines his moon/Neptune, which may be why you two can have such a great time on a date, but this isn't going to overcome those heavy Saturn aspects. Remember than the moon is fickle - its orbit is faster and changes often, and its influence on our charts is very similar. Saturn is much more steady. So when your good moon contacts may make you feel good for a night, those Saturn aspects are what's going to be giving you that less than romantic aftertaste the morning after. The question you need to ask yourself is this worth that kind of highs and lows? I suspect that in the long run you two would have many experiences like ths: a lovely, great, romantic time with each other that ends on a serious, straining note. I'm sorry I can't give you better news. I just think you shouldn't kid yourself with how Saturn is playing its hand between you two, or you could end up deeply hurt. You could learn a lot from this relationship about yourself and what you want, but I can't say that even with your Saggy optimism and Arian determination that you can make this work the way I suspect you want it to. Enjoy what of this relationship you can, but don't think you can force this to work or change how he is (with his 12th Saturn, he would have a very hard time changing his habits and emotional responses anyhow). Good luck. pixelpixieStill.. that's a powerul composite.All those conjunctions in the relationship sector!Usually the composite chart of people who mean something karmically, wil be powerfully themed.Go with your gut, but throw in a healthy sense of whimsy and common sense. pidauaeditedAzalakshPidaua ~There are few who could follow Gemini Nymph and Pixelpixie with astrological observations, so I won't attempt it But I wanted to say how glad I am that you've found someone special after your disastrous adventure with the first Mr Taurus. Shall we just call your new friend BP?!? I'm impressed that he's open to astro, I find that a huge plus in a special friend.My only perception from what you've written is that you and Mr BP *must* communicate your feelings and issues, and it looks like you're off to a great start, or at least it's a positive omen, with the "I own you" misunderstanding.Life is full of risks -- but that doesn't mean stop going for the brass ring *in case you might get hurt*!!!{{love & hugs}}'ZalapidauaeditedsthenriEverything sounds positive so far Pidua, I read a few things on this board that make sense-such as commitment is sharing the doubts-if you two can talk to each other about your doubts and your dreams then I would say it's great. Keep checking in with him on your feelings and go slow with your heart and let him come to you. Remember you are the prize, not him, enjoy his company, show you are attracted but don't think of the future with him yet.Sag moons are great company-but a little pushy in terms of getting physical. I do have a friend with Saturn opposite my Venus and it works out-as friends.I like the Taurus Sun for your Taurus Saturn because your goals are similar but the relationship is too new to judge as a romance until he sort of says I love you, or I want you near me always or something like that.Good Luck,Natasha sthenriedited, sorry double post.pidauaedited AzalakshHiya Pid ~How's things going with Mr BP??{{hugs}}'ZalapidauaeditedsthenriHappy Birthday Pidua!I am happy the New Taurus is working out for you, and you are a wonderful person so it's natural that the ex wants you back. Reading your posts makes me wonder if I should start dating law enforcement types.Sags have an energy missing in Taurus life, this is the best time of year.Take Care,NatashapidauaeditedsthenriHi Pidua, I will find it and send an update,Take Care,Natashalalalindawell Ms.Pid I'm so happy you're in a relationship that deserves you. I haven't been able to get into my e-mail or I would have dropped you a line by now. Hope you had a wonderful birthday! pidauaedited- he turned out to be a BIG loser.
OK, you need to really look at those Saturn aspects girl. I mean, really, really look at them. In all Saturn is aspecting Venus. Both in your synastry and composite. Those are no mere triffles there - those are serious challenges.
Saturn like this will probably make both of you want this to be a "grown-up" relationship and be very certain and careful. But at the same time, don't kid yourself. Saturn can make us work very very hard at something, so be sure this is what you want. Otherwise Saturn will be making both of you work very hard for nothing in the end.
Even with a Sag moon, he's going to have a more somber personality than you. His moon is conjunct his Neptune, and that creates instablity for the lunar energies. This makes him hypersenstive and emotional unsure, even insecure. His imagination gets the better of him often, so it's not surprising he overreacts to a mere jest.
Your moon trines his moon/Neptune, which may be why you two can have such a great time on a date, but this isn't going to overcome those heavy Saturn aspects. Remember than the moon is fickle - its orbit is faster and changes often, and its influence on our charts is very similar. Saturn is much more steady. So when your good moon contacts may make you feel good for a night, those Saturn aspects are what's going to be giving you that less than romantic aftertaste the morning after. The question you need to ask yourself is this worth that kind of highs and lows? I suspect that in the long run you two would have many experiences like ths: a lovely, great, romantic time with each other that ends on a serious, straining note.
I'm sorry I can't give you better news. I just think you shouldn't kid yourself with how Saturn is playing its hand between you two, or you could end up deeply hurt. You could learn a lot from this relationship about yourself and what you want, but I can't say that even with your Saggy optimism and Arian determination that you can make this work the way I suspect you want it to. Enjoy what of this relationship you can, but don't think you can force this to work or change how he is (with his 12th Saturn, he would have a very hard time changing his habits and emotional responses anyhow).
Good luck.
There are few who could follow Gemini Nymph and Pixelpixie with astrological observations, so I won't attempt it But I wanted to say how glad I am that you've found someone special after your disastrous adventure with the first Mr Taurus. Shall we just call your new friend BP?!? I'm impressed that he's open to astro, I find that a huge plus in a special friend.My only perception from what you've written is that you and Mr BP *must* communicate your feelings and issues, and it looks like you're off to a great start, or at least it's a positive omen, with the "I own you" misunderstanding.Life is full of risks -- but that doesn't mean stop going for the brass ring *in case you might get hurt*!!!
{{love & hugs}}'Zala
Keep checking in with him on your feelings and go slow with your heart and let him come to you. Remember you are the prize, not him, enjoy his company, show you are attracted but don't think of the future with him yet.
Sag moons are great company-but a little pushy in terms of getting physical.
I do have a friend with Saturn opposite my Venus and it works out-as friends.
I like the Taurus Sun for your Taurus Saturn because your goals are similar but the relationship is too new to judge as a romance until he sort of says I love you, or I want you near me always or something like that.
Good Luck,Natasha
How's things going with Mr BP??
{{hugs}}'Zala
I am happy the New Taurus is working out for you, and you are a wonderful person so it's natural that the ex wants you back. Reading your posts makes me wonder if I should start dating law enforcement types.
Sags have an energy missing in Taurus life, this is the best time of year.
Take Care,Natasha
I'm so happy you're in a relationship that deserves you. I haven't been able to get into my e-mail or I would have dropped you a line by now. Hope you had a wonderful birthday!
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